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Las Vegas Dance Inspired Intimate Lifestyle Portraits | Tom

I traveled to Las Vegas back earlier this year in February to teach a class on capturing intimacy and connection with couples boudoir (I’ll be sharing more about that in a future blog post), and while there I had the opportunity to work with and photograph an amazing dancer/performer by the name of Duy Phat (Tom) Le. We were connected by a mutual friend, who I am eternally grateful for helping us meet, and were able to create some dancer inspired boudoir magic on a beautiful Sunday afternoon in Las Vegas.

 Tom was open to experimenting and playing around to see what we could create. No expectations, no pressure, just an opportunity to play outside the box with no pressure to do anything other than experiment and see what we could come up with.

 And now I’m excited for the opportunity to share our results with you!  

Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer bending backward black and white photo
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer bending backward with face looking up black and white photo
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer laying a settee with feet pointed in the air  black and white photo
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer holding one leg in the air black and white photo
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer posing near sliding glass doors black and white photo
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer laying on back with knees bent black and white photo
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer posing with hands up next to a sliding glass window
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer posing with hands up and knees bent next to a sliding glass window
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer posing with face towards the sun near large glass window
Intimate_Lens_Studio-10.jpgOklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer posing with back against sliding glass doors
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer posing with one hand over his head and the other hand wrapped around his stomach standing next to sliding glass  doors
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer posing and creating a shadow on a wall black and white photo
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer standing next to window with sun flare
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer laying on his back with one leg up black and white photo
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer posing with back against the wall
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer posing with back against the wall black and white
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer posing in front of reflective glass doors
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer in shower with back against shower wall
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer in shower posing
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer posing in shower with back arched and head up
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer in shower with back against shower wall  black and white photo
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer in shower leaning against the wall
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer in shower with back arched
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male dancer in shower with leaning against shower wall with hands up

Toronto Intimate lifestyle portraits | Pratik-Out of his comfort zone

This past summer, I attend a boudoir conference/workshop called “Camp Do More.” It was held in a small town outside of Toronto, Canada. Attending the conference was an amazing experience, allowing me to hone my craft while connecting with other like minded people in a welcoming environment and in a beautiful secluded location perfect for boudoir photography (is it time to go back yet?).

While there, in addition to learning, I also photographed several fellow photographers, including my friend Pratik.

While Pratik has extensive experience behind the camera, it was his first time in front of the camera for an intimate lifestyle portrait session.

He rocked it, and I’m so excited to share photos from his session!

I asked Pratik to share some of his thoughts about his experience in front of the camera………

Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male boudoir man lying on couch

"I was able to teach at Camp Do More for two years in row. It's what got me formally introduced into the boudoir community. One thing I never understood was the intent of it all. I'll be honest and tell you that right now. However, I wanted to learn and understand. I wanted to know more. An outsider never truly understands but it's our responsibility to be open minded to find out.

Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male boudoir man lying on couch black and white portrait
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male boudoir man lying on couch and laughing

“What I soon learned is that boudoir itself allows people to celebrate themselves and accept who they are. It isn't for anyone else as much as it is for themselves. You can love yourself and you truly realize how powerful of an experience it is being in front of the camera. Like many guys out there, I have a lot of insecurities and I often look at myself in a way that isn't positive. It's because we see ourselves through our own eyes and not the eyes of others. What would it be like if we got to see what we looked like through the vision of someone else?”

Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male boudoir male lying on bed
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male boudoir black and white portrait
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male boudoir man lying on bed black and white portrait

“Working with Ore I understood fully. I truly saw myself in a light which I hadn't before. I was so nervous being photographed, but she was able to make it like a trip to the grocery store! Super easy and painless, without the lines! I felt like I was talking to a friend and she captured me in a way that made me feel comfortable.”

Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male boudoir man standing by window
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male boudoir mane standing by window black and white portrait
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male boudoir man standing by window

“We often see women as subjects but I wanted to do this because it's important for men to be photographed more often. We don't see guys like myself as often in front of the camera but it's an amazing experience to be documented like this for ourselves. Guys often feel like they can't be represented in the genre and it's also important that we appreciate ourselves and get a chance to see how others see us. It can change the outlook of who we are and give a chance to embrace ourselves amid any insecurities we may have. "

Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male boudoir man standing by window black and white portrait
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male boudoir man standing in front of door black and white portrait
Oklahoma City Boudoir Photographer male boudoir man standing in front of door

Oklahoma City Intimate lifestyle Portraits | Nicholas

Nick is a beautiful soul, inside and out, and I wanted to share some of what he wrote about his decision to do male boudoir and his experience from being behind the camera to in front of the camera:

Oklahoma City Urban Angel Halloween intimate lifestyle Portraits | Zach

Oklahoma City Urban Angel Halloween intimate lifestyle Portraits | Zach

I’ve been in love with these custom made wings from Leah Marie Couture for a while.  These wings are hand crafted from ostrich feathers, and the way they move and flow with the body allow the possibility for some creative boudoir photographs.